(5) GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS – members put forth the effort to hear how the other person says and feels.  They are comfortable voicing opinions of their own and open to change.  They don’t always agree, but open to resolve conflicts.  (6)  HEALTHY LIFESTYLE – good nutrition, adequate rest and plenty of exercise for optimal wellness.  Quiet time to help manage stress.  When all members function at their best, the result is a strong family.  (7)  SPIRITUAL STRENGTH – live by the golden rule, treating others in the family as they want to be treated.  Value praying, singing and meditating and share common values.  (8)  POSITIVE OUTLOOK – deal with crises in a constructive way.  They search for the silver lining and stick together. They believe they can handle anything that comes their way.  MORE TO COME!